wandering eyes

I witnessed this couple in a vehicle. He spotted a pretty woman as they drove by. I thought it was rude and a total disrespect to his woman when he nonchalantly looked out his side view mirror to look at her behind. Also I noticed the woman was upset at this and she should be. I'm sure if the shoe was on the other foot the man wouldn't like it if the woman checked out another man. Nowadays, there is no repect for others feelings nor for relationships. These type of men then wonder why can I be in a stable relationship? The short answer you don't appreciate or respect the woman in your life. If you are checking out another person that is not your partner that's a big red flag that that person doesn't deserve you. This also applies to if your looking at porn and lusting for those individuals. You're in a relationship I imagine because you want to have a long committed relationship with your chosen person. Otherwise, why be in a relationship if you'd rather be with other people unless that's something you've discussed with your partner. It baffles me as to why people do this and think it's okay. It's not okay, it's hurtful and down right a slap in your partners face. People think they can continue this type of behavior as if it isn't noticed by the other person. Just because a person doesn't say anything doesn't mean it's not noticed. These behaviors are not indicative of love, what it actually says, "I don't want to be with you". I personally wouldn't want a man that cannot or will not respect me and our relationship.