bad actors

Bad actors are controlling manipulative people that are unhappy miserable people. They cannot see anyone happy or having any kind of good success. Intentionally they try to sabotage others peoples lives, happiness and success. Often, they use gossiping tactics and/or give bad advice in order to disrupt or cause strife in that person’s life. I take anything I hear from anyone like a grain of salt, I then verify with the source if it warrants it otherwise, I discard it from memory. I’ve been caught in these types of scenarios over my lifetime and the lies, rumors and bad advice really caused me a lot of unhappiness, pain and anguish. People can be mean and uncaring. If they can’t be happy they don’t want anyone else to be happy either. I feel very sorry for these bad actors because they obviously have had rough events in their lives that caused them to be this way. That’s not to say that there aren’t people out there that just happen to get their jollies at creating mass mayhem, chaos and confusion for others. A long time ago I decided never to give anyone that power over me again. If I hear something about someone else and I need to verify it’s authenticity then I go right to the person that the rumor is about. When you’re in doubt just go to the source.