Defined

A relationship should be reciprocating ay every level because there are two people involved and not just the one. If one or the other falls short on the reciprocation then the question is, are they committed to the relationship or are they just not wanting to be in that relationship? These boundaries have to be clearly defined because the one that is committed will be hurt, broken hearted and feeling betrayed if the other is not feeling the same way. At that point, the committed person may feel used, and perhaps feel they have been toyed with. So how to rectify this, from the beginning things should be clarified or at some point in the relationship this should be clarified. Otherwise, what is the point of investing time in someone if they don't feel the same way or if they aren't looking to be in a committed relationship. Love is fragile and it should be cherished, nourished and cultivated.